Finding the right look for a wedding ceremony can be very challenging, especially from the point of view of color choice. For example, can black formal dresses be worn? The short answer is that it depends on the type of marriage, and no longer on the etiquette.
Think about the formality of marriage
If the couple is organizing a wedding with a “black-tie” dress code in a very formal place, such as a period villa or a prestigious location, the woman generally means the long dress. In these contexts, especially in the evening, black was widely cleared through customs. In a relaxed country setting or a seaside resort, on the other hand, black would seem too serious and out of place – pastel or more vibrant colors will be much more appropriate.
For black formal wear, consider the time of day
According to etiquette, the “black-tie” dress code is only suitable for receptions starting at 6pm or later. While not all weddings follow these rules, women can still choose lighter, brighter colors for daytime events and deeper, more formal tones for the evening. And black formal dresses in this case are perfect.
Location matters
In big cities it is now very common to see women in black formal dresses at weddings. In the South of USA, in the province and in general in areas where traditions are still very strong, it is much less widespread. To decide whether to wear black at a wedding, remember that your outfit must “honor” the couple. Make sure your look is respectful and appropriate for the event by making an extra effort to understand what you should and shouldn’t prefer. If you can’t interpret the dress code exactly, ask the couple or the bridesmaids for help.
Black yes, white no
As a general rule, wearing black at weddings is allowed, as it is a versatile and always elegant shade. However, the idea of wearing white, reserved exclusively for the bride, remains a taboo. Unless she is the one who requests it… In recent years we are seeing more and more couples opting for a “black and white” dress code for all the guests, or deciding to have the bridesmaids wear only white dresses or only black formal dresses.
And speaking of brides, black is also allowed for the actual wedding dress. There are those who choose it for civil weddings celebrated in the late afternoon, for particular Gothic-themed ceremonies, or simply because she loves this color. You can opt for a completely black wedding dress, but also for a white model with black embroidery. Maximum freedom of choice!
